The Best of Spring Break
I spent the recent Spring Break enjoying the company of my family, renewing
acquaintances with old friends, firing up the BBQ, and sipping wine at dusk
while watching the deer gambol in the field. Of course I also had a long
list of spring cleaning chores to do: replace the storms with screens, re-
mulch the flower beds, take down the apple tree split by the first winter
storm, and load up the trailer for a couple of runs to the dump.
So how did you spend your Spring Break? Did you go with the family down to
the desert to play golf and lounge around the pool, drinking neon drinks
with paper umbrellas? Did you head to the islands to soak up the sun,
surf, and mirth? Perhaps you stayed home, did some shoveling, some skiing,
and some soaking in the hot tub?
Spring Break has a long history of hedonism, of self-indulgence, even of
excess. But the following is one Spring Break story that boasts no Jell-O
shooters, no Speedos, and no girlz gone wild.
Mark Brockway is the Facilities Manager at Lake Tahoe School. While I'm
still not sure exactly what "Facilities Manager" means, it seems as though
he does a little bit of everything: he heads up our security, he knows
which pumps pump the glycol, he is responsible for ensuring that all our
zoning permits are up to date. Mark's usually at school by 6am and usually
on his way home by 6pm. Sometimes he works longer.
While I may be the titular head of the school, Mark is the nuts-and-bolts
man, the man all institutions cannot do without, the man who makes the
place work from the ground up.
I would have thought that Mark would have welcomed Spring Break as a time
to relax, to catch his breath, perhaps to poke around school when he had
the luxury of no one being around to ask him to fix a toilet, to hang a
map, or to replace a light bulb.
But no. At 3 in the morning on Easter Sunday, Mark, along with 53 or so
other Incline Villager students and adults, woke up and lugged his
suitcases and his tired self to Reno in order to go to Louisiana and help
rebuild a Gulf Coast that was devastated by Hurricane Katrina.
Mark and the group went to Ocean Springs (northeast of New Orleans, just by
the Alabama border) where he was housed in Tent City, a series of musty
canvas tents that slept eight. Until they were shut down, there were just
two showers for 80 people.
But they ate well - scrambled eggs, pancakes, and grits for breakfast - and
they worked hard to rebuild the homes of residents who were beginning to
put their lives and dreams back together. They worked alongside homeowners
and did mostly light construction chores - insulating, drywall, roofing,
wiring, and painting. According to Mark however, the most important work
they did was listening:
"Our work was not just physical but emotional. A lot of people just needed
to tell their stories, and once they did the transformation was amazing.
They stood straighter, swung their hammers harder, and smiled more.
The people down there were great. They kept thanking us for helping out,
and I kept thinking, ‘this is the easy part. I'm sleeping in a tent, but
I'm going home to my house, and I have windows and doors and no mud or mold
in my bedroom.'"
Mark has much to be thankful for, as do we all. And it's nice to know that
while some of us were sleeping off our Spring Break excesses, others were
helping people to reconstruct their dreams.
Thank you to Mark and thank you to the others from Incline and elsewhere
who spent their vacations giving of themselves. Hopefully, their example
will continue a trend of trading thongs for tool belts, sun tan lotion for
mole skin, and self-indulgence for altruism.
Wouldn't that be a nice Spring Break for us all to enjoy?
--Steve McKibben
4/30/06